Handling Criticism

I once served on the board of directors of an organization that hired Christians for a variety of ministries across North America. One of the questions asked of the references was how the applicant handled criticism. It was invariably one of the lowest ratings the applicant received. In fact, I don't remember reading a reference of anyone described as enjoying criticism or receiving it with enthusiasm.
I think we can safely assume that none of us enjoys being criticized. So what should we do when we’re the one being criticized?
We should listen to the criticism. The New Testament says, “Everyone should be quick to listen, slow to speak and slow to become angry.” It’s important to pay close attention because the critic may be right.
David was a man in the Old Testament whom no one would want to criticize. He was the king! But he had a critic named Nathan, who was a prophet. Nathan dared to confront King David about his adultery and murder. Now, it’s not easy to confront a king. You do so at risk of your life! But Nathan had a message that David needed to hear and he was right to confront him. David’s response was stunning. David said to Nathan, “I have sinned against the Lord.” He listened to the criticism, considered it and realized that Nathan was right.
We would be wise to heed David’s example. We should hear our critics out and humbly consider what they have to say. Because, often they’re right!

Related Scripture: James 1:19 & 2 Samuel 12:13

© 2007 Leith Anderson